30 Jul Investing in Human Potential
A few months ago, I wrote that exploitation survives on vulnerability.
I still believe that’s true.
But this World Day Against Trafficking in Persons, I want to challenge us to move beyond a word we’ve grown far too comfortable with and start talking about one we rarely use:
Capacity.
We spend a lot of time raising awareness about human trafficking. And we should. We cannot solve a problem we refuse to see.
But if we’re honest, awareness is the easy part.
Awareness allows us to look. It allows us to feel something. Sometimes it even allows us to feel like we’ve done something simply because we’ve learned more about the problem.
We’ve become remarkably good at identifying vulnerability. We catalog the risk factors. We study exploitation. Researchers graph it. Funders measure it. Conferences discuss it. We all shake our heads at how broken the system is.
We’ve become experts at naming and documenting brokenness.
What we don’t talk about with nearly the same urgency is what actually builds someone back up.
We celebrate empathy… and we should. We know how to climb down into the hole with someone instead of shouting advice from above. But climbing into the hole is not the destination. It’s only the beginning.
That’s where capacity begins.
Early in my career, I worked with a survivor who had been branded by her trafficker with a dollar sign tattooed on her face. It was heartbreaking. She had been commodified by another human being in one of the most visible ways imaginable. Of course I felt grief for what had happened to her. Anyone would.
But heartbreak isn’t a strategy. Pity has never removed a tattoo. Sympathy has never opened a savings account, earned a college degree, secured stable housing, or changed the trajectory of a family’s future.
As we talked, she shared something simple but profound. She wanted the tattoo removed. Not because someone else thought she should, but because she was tired of being judged by something she never chose.
So people showed up. Doctors volunteered their time. Resources were found. People invested their expertise in someone they had never met before.
They weren’t just removing ink. They were removing one more barrier between who she had been forced to become and who she wanted to be.
That’s capacity. Capacity isn’t feeling sorry for someone. Capacity is believing someone’s future deserves investment.
After nearly a decade leading Empowered Network, I’ve learned something that still surprises me. People are almost always capable of far more than the systems around them assume.
Here’s something that may make people uncomfortable: Trauma is real. It changes people. But trauma does not have to become someone’s identity. What limits people for decades isn’t always what happened to them. It’s often the expectations placed on them afterward by our society. The assumption that survivors will always struggle. That they will always need rescue. That they will always live on the edge of vulnerability. That their future should somehow resemble their past.
We lower the ceiling long before survivors ever reach it. It drives me bonkers. Because when we expect more, invest more, and stay longer, the results can be extraordinary.
When Nadine first came to Empowered Network as a client, she was working as a fast-food manager while delivering DoorDash to make ends meet. She was raising two children on her own and living with enormous financial insecurity. She worked relentlessly alongside us.
Within a year, she earned both her CNA and LPN credentials. She moved her family into a safer neighborhood. She opened a savings account for the first time in her life. Today, she’s working full time as a licensed practical nurse while continuing nursing school.
Ask Nadine how she did it, and she’ll probably tell you: “With help from my amazing advocate.”
And she’s right. But what she doesn’t see is that behind every person whose story is a “success” is an invisible network of people who invested long before success was guaranteed. Donors, employers, mentors, volunteers, staff. People invested in a future they could not yet see.
That is capacity.
Every survivor I’ve watched build a stable, thriving life has had a team standing behind them. Not a fan club cheering from the sidelines of awareness. An investment community. A group of people who decided another person’s future was worth their time.
Worth their expertise. Worth their resources. Worth their belief.
That’s what changes lives. Long-term investment in human potential.
This World Day Against Trafficking in Persons, let’s absolutely continue raising awareness. The world still needs to see exploitation for what it is. But let’s stop pretending that pointing out a fire is the same thing as rebuilding the house. Instead, let’s ask ourselves harder questions.
Who are we actually investing in? Whose potential are we willing to bank on? Whose future are we willing to believe in before they’ve proven anything to us?
Awareness asks us to notice suffering. Capacity asks us to believe in someone’s future.
Awareness says, “That shouldn’t have happened.” Capacity says, “Here’s what we’re going to build together.”
One changes our perspective. The other changes someone’s life.
Because exploitation survives on vulnerability.
But capacity is built by people who have the courage to invest in human potential.